18. This phrase can … You find the strength to walk away. Now, this is a great sign that he loves you but don’t take this for granted, you should make changes as well. By then our relationship had dwindled down to text messages twice a week. You give in. The "me" time or the "space" then few weeks goes by I seen him in a picture with another lady on facebook. #7 He will still do anything for you. Last year he told me that he doesn’t want to take intiative and he is the way he is and if I can’t accept it he will break up with me. A problem in your relationship doesn’t matter because not being with you doesn’t hurt. Then he doesn’t want you. Rinse and repeat. See, if he doesn’t want to break up with you, he’ll focus on changing his behavior in order to save the relationship. Trying to calm you down will not be done because he doesn’t care about you being happy. He told me that a friend was telling him that if were unhappy he should leave me to find true love if he truly wants me to be happy. He goes to back to her after 15 years ago that they used to date. 17. When your husband doesn't care about your feelings, what it means is that he doesn't love you as before or even a little bit anymore. He is not man enough to come to you and admit that he doesn’t have any romantic feelings for you anymore. Let me get to my point. In reality, it is hard to break up with someone. (Sad but true!) He's even said he doesn't think he can be with me anymore. This statement "I don't want to hurt you" for example. He's becoming distant. I couldn’t handle being in a relationship with someone who doesn’t check upon me at all. The crux of this however is usually they are trying to analyze what they say to fit their picture of how they want things to be. You want to go watch ballet, he cancels his hockey game and goes with you. Never Smiling At You Anymore It's as simple as that. It hurts. I broke up with him last February. A guy isn’t usually going to come out and give you a reason why he doesn’t like you. He may not have thought about it much to begin with, or he may just not be able to put it into words. 16. thing is i can’t live without him and he keeps saying it’s for the best but he doesn’t know i wasn’t unhappy. He wants you. Hmm, maybe, but let's put it under the microscope without tunnel vision. Make a long story short. The trouble is, he doesn't feel the same way. But even if he can give a concrete reason, he most likely won’t because he doesn’t want to hurt your feelings. Then he doesn’t want you. You don’t want to be with a man who has to lose you in order to finally wake up to himself and realize you are in fact what he wants, or, on top of that, a man who wouldn’t even care if he … You may want to read that as he must care about my feelings. Why doesn't he want me?" This threat can be true if he continuously say this to you. Trust me, a man like that is not hubby material. He obviously made up his mind and he doesn’t want to be with you. Your feelings represent your state of mind at any point in time and anyone that doesn't care about them doesn't care about you; it doesn't matter if such one is your husband. When you care more about how you feel when you're with a man and when you're not with him - and if he can be a good partner - you'll have all the information you need to know whether or not to keep moving forward with a man. Threatening To Divorce You. The worst thing is that he shows you that in a bad way. He’s scared because he knows that you’re the real deal, and maybe, right now, that’s not what he wants. He decided one day he wanted out. He Doesn’t Want To Hurt You. He says he does not want to hurt me and felt he was being unfair. 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